What Are Ben Wa Balls ?

Thanks to 50 Shades Of Grey women aer becoming more adventurous and more in tune with their sexuality. While BDS is becoming much more mainstream, so too are Ben Wa Balls–a circular bunch that just a few months ago were unknown to most women. While the sparked conversation, it didn’t do much for teaching you all of the benefits of the balls.

Ben Wa Balls originated in Asia and were discovered by European travellers in the 16th century. They were designed to give men more pleasure during sex. However, it obviously didn’t take the women who were using them for the men very long to realize that it did the same thing for them. In the centuries to come Ben Wa Balls developed more of a female focus.

But what exactly are they ? They are balls ranging from marble size to golf size and are available in several different materials such as glass, metal, plastic, latex, and silicone. Each ball has a tiny weight inside of it that moves around, causing the balls to slightly vibrate. They also come stringed or separate. To use them, simply place them inside of you one at a time.

But why should you use them ? Ben Wa Balls are great for older women who are loosing muscle control and developing incontinence issues. By using the balls, you can build up your PC muscles, which will in turn give you better control. They are also a great investment for any woman who just had a baby and wants to tighten everything back up. You can just slip them in while you are vacuuming, running errands or going to work. However, I recommend you some time with them at home before venturing into public with them inside of you.

They also have sexual benefits. You can use them they way they were originally intended and incorporate them into your sexual routine. Having sex with your partner will never feel the same. The balls move around inside of you, igniting every inch of you while your partner thrusts. They are known to aid in and amp up G-spot, cervical and clitoral orgasms. Who doest want that ?

You can also use them for solo play. Whether you simply rock yourself to orgasm, use them in conjunction with a vibrator or dildo, they’ll definitely be a very different approach to masturbation.

But which ones should you get ? If you are nervous about them getting “lost” inside of you, go-go for the stringed versions. A string will hang out just like a tampon and ensure the retrieval is simple. If you are looking for them to float around more freely, go for the separated ones. Since cleanliness is important, I would opt for the glass or metal balls–they are much easier to clean and do not retain bacteria.

Now that you know, its time to give them a try. Head over to Adam & Eve and peruse their vast selection, you’re sure to find a pair that fits your fancy.

G

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Call for Submissions…Pretty Please??

When Im not a night shift healer giving sponge baths and saving lives, I dream of being an artist. When I was much younger, I had an art scholarship in LA, and was too young and dumb to take advantage of the opportunity. I sit quietly in the night and scribble poetry in my ever-handy journal, and try my hand at erotic imagery via the written word. I love to create…t0 show things in a different and beautiful light.

So that being said, Im working on a piece. A fairly massive undertaking that will end up being a definite wall centerpiece. Its a multi-panel figure study of the body, in all its shapes, sizes, curves, hair, beauty, light and shadow. I have plenty (lol..understatement of the year) of pictures of my ass in an number of different positions. But Im desperately lacking other genders, ages, positons, and sizes. Tattoos, birthmarks, scars…all are part of who you are and are beautiful!

The six panels will focus on a different part of the body: Arm/hands, Legs/feet, Abdomens (everything from a hairy beer gut to a big pregnant belly to well-chiseled abs), Asses, Breasts, and Genetalia. For all of the above…the more variety of ages and genders in unique positions would be gratefully recieved!

So, send me your snapshots, or professionally photographed parts! Your identity will remain confidential, and you’ll be posing for a work of art! Im posting a few of my sketches to give you an example of my ability. This piece has awesome potential, so I hope you will consider contributing.

Pretty Please?

xo
G

 

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Charming Rings

What girl doesn’t like jewelry ? Rings, necklaces, bracelets all the shiny pretty things that cause women to sparkle or become moist ! I enjoy seeing the smile on Georgia’s face when I get her a new shiny, pretty piece of metal.

For quite a while now Georgia has wanted some bling for her nipples and what Georgia wants Georgia gets. She received from Nipple Charms Jewelry, two beautiful diamond rings for her lovely dark pink nipples.  Depending on your nipple or breast size can take a moment or two to fit. Georgia is of the “itty bitty titty” school so it took a minute of fondling for us to get the ring in place. Of course once we had it in place we had to give it some company in the way of Maui Kink rope.

Pretty dont you think ?

~Jay

 

 

 

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Si, Cogeme Mas Duro Por Favor !

It was past midnight, the stars and milky way stared down at us, in the distance flashes of lightning danced in the sky. We were standing on the green of the first hole on the golf course. The wet, soft grass beneath our feet, a warm summer breeze wafted around us. That is when she began to unbutton my pants, then kneel down to close her moist lips around my cock, gulping it deeply, my cock answered her stiffly probing her mouth. Holding her hair in one hand, I traced my cock around her wet lips, feeling the vibrations of her pleasurable moans.

My cock was hard, and I was eager to plunge my swollen member inside of her. I lifted her by the hair of her head, standing her up, then turning her around, her firm round ass, toned by so many rounds of golf, pushed against my wet shimmering cock. Bending her over I slid into her inviting lips. She thrust back, her ass pounding against my hips. My hands found a grip as I bent her over, and we commenced to fucking as wildly and uninhibited as wild animals.

There is a primal freedom fucking outdoors, whether in the middle of the forest, a park, or a golf course. Feeling in touch with the basic need of release, this time it was not for populating our tribe, or for producing sons and daughters to inherit our kingdom. This was sex for just her and I, affirming our love for each other, taking pleasure in giving pleasure.

As we walked back to our car, my arm around her, and her head on my shoulder. We glowed in the moonlight planning our next adventure in this wonderful place.

~Jay

 

 

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Angry Fuckin’

Nothing like walking the razor edge of consensual violence during intercourse. The occasion was a lazy afternoon, the position was G straddling me, facing away, while the muscled bare legs of female pro golfers were displayed on the TV.

G was determined to achieve satiation and as soon as I had felt her express her oozing satisfaction, I stood up quickly, grabbing a fist full of her hair, I slapped her round ass hard, twice with my hand. I told her she was mine as I half pulled, half dragged her to the bedroom.

Throwing her on the bed face first, then lifting her hips so she would present for me. I plunged my shaft deep inside her, holding her hips fast as we breathed roughly, excitedly. A process of rejuvenation, almost cathartic as I pounded her hips, sinking ever deeper into her wetness.

I pushed her head down, taking her hands behind her so she was forced into that position. Face down,, ass up, submitting completely too me.

It was angry fucking at its best. Which is what I enjoy about our sex life. You can walk that line of fantasy in a healthy way.

~Jay

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A Return From Hiatus

After a brief hiatus that required us to focus narrowly on achieving the first step in a continuing adventure. There are times when we all would like to be David Thoreau, turning our backs on civilization, dropping out and joining the rainbow people, shunning the plastic corporate government run society.

So for the next eight weeks we are be spending our working vacation in southern New Mexico, the land of UFO’s, abandoned cavalry forts, and mystical ancient cultures. Learning Spanish will be a must, a useful tool to detect the level of hostility when walking into the local bar.

Our time spent in the Southwestern desert will be a temporary one, filling our time with exploring the surrounding geologic formations, playing some golf, and sampling the local cuisine.

And maybe, we might even get some outdoor bondage pictures, the landscape here is a perfect backdrop for a hot red head in a predicament.

~Jay

 

 

 

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Safeword May Issue

The May issue of Safeword Magazine is now online. This month’s issue thrusts its literary hips deep into politics and sex, sizzling erotica, toe tapping music, and cutting edge photography. Featured in this issue is the DC area activist Isu Ago, who bares his muscly physique as this months hot model.

This month’s issue of Safeword Magazine is free for anyone to explore its juicy, sexy, tantalizing bits. Take a moment, sit your partner on your knee, then take an arousing trip through this magazine.

Click here to enjoy !

 

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Spring Into Summer

I remember fondly the spring days of my youth, the bright sun would transform the opposite sex into bare legged beauties. I would feel the warm glow rise up my legs, as I wonderd what lay beneath the thin layer of denim. A hint of ass or a dark flash of cotton underwear. Yes, the heady days of coming to grips with puberty.

A little different now that I am 40; A summer day means Georgia in a sarong or short shorts, warm weather means sex, fertility, virility. The pagans are onto something celebrating the new year of planting seed.

We had a day like this yesterday. A day complete with soaking up the sun’s rays and getting some gardening done.

 

The above was my view each time I would sit and have a glass of tea. A delicious vantage point indeed !

~Jay

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Fantasy Kinkland

I would speculate I am not alone in toying with the idea of creating a magical fuck-toy of your design whenever it pleased you. I imagine something happening similar to the 80′s coming of age romp Weird Science but with kinksters.

It would be satisfyingly hedonistic to cavort around the house with a play toy that could be folded and put away as neatly as rope. Fantasy is like that.  They dont even have to be called a fantasy, they are as much ideas as anything.

Fantasies work for couples on different levels. Fantasy can be a safe place to express desire, sexual or otherwise. Fantasy can be used to try something once, first to imagine it happening, then considering the consequences of those ideas in a constructive manner.

Fantasies shouldnt be viewed as a threat to a relationship. It is okay to talk about the idea of seeing your partner with another person, or being flogged, or simply eating fruit of their belly. Fantasies are like window shopping; you might see an outfit, or toy, or power tool, trying the item first before you buy it helps make an informed decision. Fantasy works the same way, the idea being talked about before actually happening.

Any sexual idea that is outside the conventional wisdom may sound repulsive or uncomfortable initially. Once you think about it, and talk about it with your partner, you might in the end, discover something completely unexpected and sexually satisfying.

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Dancing With The Rope

I like to think of the act of rope bondage is akin to dancing with someone. There is a lead, a rhythm, and an uplifting joy to be experienced with another, whether your dancing or suspending them with rope.

Depending on the mood that we might be experiencing, our scenes will revolve around a defiant, playful verbal exchange, or it might take the path of a more phyiscal, grappling type of scene. The differences are much the same as dancing a slow, tender waltz or a fiery tango.

Similar to making out, you may be familiar with each others moves, and expect a toouch here, or a kiss in a certain way there. The comforting expectations of having your cock caressed in a specific way, or drifting over a familiar fleshy button that sends a wave of electricity down the spine.

During a rope bondage dance, certain actions are expected, comforting and erotic. The rope becomes a tool that becomes ever bit as orgasm producing as any vibrator. The restriction of rope invokes in some a visceral need to be bound in some way,  giving up control but not expectation, to their partner, trusting them to bring them to orgasm.

Rope isnt complicated, its not right or wrong, or on anybody’s side. Rope is just there, ready to dance, eager to follow to the next great orgasm.

~Jay

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