Category Archives: relationships

Valentine’s Day

Posted on February 14, 2012 by RedHotGeorgia

What is Valentine’s Day anyway? The day of mandantory gifting of pre-prepared, generic Hallmark cards and extravagant gifts? A day specifically for lovers to fuck? Historically speaking, St Valentines Day (originating as far back as 269AD) was the day that … Continue reading →

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Fantasy Kinkland

Posted on May 2, 2011 by JM

I would speculate I am not alone in toying with the idea of creating a magical fuck-toy of your design whenever it pleased you. I imagine something happening similar to the 80′s coming of age romp Weird Science but with … Continue reading →

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Are You A Polly Or A Nelly ?

Posted on April 23, 2011 by JM

In the BDSM world, participants talk a lot about ‘power exchange’. Whether its the Dom/sub dynamic or the top/bottom, the underlying point is who has control? I have found power exchanges occurring everywhere in my life! If I let my … Continue reading →

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No Shortage Of Unicorns

Posted on March 2, 2011 by JM

I read it in profiles all over the Fetlife. The search for a single bi female, sought after in the same way BDSM groups seek play-spaces. Advertising this way never leads to a healthy threesome or the unicorn the couple … Continue reading →

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A Quickie A Day Keeps The Stress Away

Posted on February 8, 2011 by JM

I willl never caste aspersion about the power of a good, hurried, intense, orgasm. Whether done with one or more partners, the instant gratification is exceedingly fashionable in this era of instant messaging, tweets, and facebook updates. In the movie … Continue reading →

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A Year In Kink

Posted on February 1, 2011 by JM

February marks the one year milestone of our blog, not that a year is any big deal among blogs, but keeping at something for a while should be recognized in some way. We started this blog as way for us … Continue reading →

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You Can Be Lazy And Kinky

Posted on January 19, 2011 by JM

Being that at times I really prefer to put in the least amount of effort doing something I find it most productive when it comes to topping. When Georgia and I were enrolled at the Kink Academy we watched Princess … Continue reading →

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Cool Costs Money

Posted on January 18, 2011 by JM

There was an IBM commercial that had a tag line that stated “Cool costs money”. Cool does cost money, and it can be emotionally expensive as well. How often have you  done something or wanted something because it was cool?  … Continue reading →

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Smack Time

Posted on January 17, 2011 by JM

In the evenings as the cold wind blows, and night settles around the burgh, a rapacious hunger gnaws at my bowels. Not the type of hunger that can only be quenched by dense nutrients, but one that can only be … Continue reading →

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Breaking And Entering

Posted on December 28, 2010 by JM

Breaking down the barrier of inhibition and entering a state of exhibition, at least that’s what I think I have done in the last few days. I am not sure if there is a clinical term for it, call it … Continue reading →

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