Category Archives: rhetoric

Shaming Is A Distraction

Shaming, seems to drift in and out of culture like a fog, causing us to lose focus on the road.  Those of us who do not subscribe to state endorsed norms are confronted with this shame every day. Shame is … Continue reading

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Fight The Power

If you keep up with our blog you are aware we had the opportunity to meet and get to know the magnificent, sexy, The Beautiful Kind. But there is more to her story than just getting “the kinks worked out”. … Continue reading

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Eros And Some Other Words…

I enjoy the psychedelic energy created with my lovely muse when I tie her with rope. Graydancer posted an essay considering the words we use, and the meaning behind them. I would suggest you go read that first as the … Continue reading

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Bi Males, Bi Females, Discuss…

We were on the back porch the other day, enjoying some fruity spirits, a cool breeze, and purple martins flying about the sky.  It was one of those serendipitous occasions that sends an explosion of butterflies through your stomach. We … Continue reading

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Facebook 99% Culture Free

The young upstart social network Facebook is deciding to embrace mediocrity at the ascent of its popularity. Over the last few weeks Facebook has removed a feminist pro porn page( no porn was displayed or linked too), the Liberator sex … Continue reading

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Forced Consent

In the BDSM world the slogan Safe Sane and Consensual is slapped to our collective bumper sticker. We are reminded of it in the same way our mothers reminded us of the golden rule, or to eat your veggies.I began … Continue reading

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Rope Pride Flag

I remember first seeing a gay pride flag in a antiquated bohemian tourist trap in Arkansas. It seemed most every business had it either waving in front of their business or in sticker form on their door. I never really … Continue reading

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If Your Not Hetero Your Against Us

You might have heard in the news of a video called Collateral Murder, a video testimony of the uselessness of war shown to the world by the organization Wikileaks. The person who provided that video was a young US Army … Continue reading

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Comfort Levels

Being a sexual explorative couple, part of our recreational time is spent having something to do with sexual activity. Either rope work, writing, communicating stories, surmising sexually about various peoples we see, or attend semi adventurous parties. As any couple … Continue reading

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Poser Women

I dont often pay heed to the anti porn/sex crowd, kind of similar to an angry homeless women shouting at her grocery cart you cross the street to avoid. You know shes more of a harm to herself than anyone … Continue reading

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