Category Archives: society

Safeword Magazine !

If  you have not had  the chance to see the stylish periodical called Safeword Magazine then do yourself a favor and check it out now. It is a breath of fresh air in the play space of fetish media. A … Continue reading

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No Shortage Of Unicorns

I read it in profiles all over the Fetlife. The search for a single bi female, sought after in the same way BDSM groups seek play-spaces. Advertising this way never leads to a healthy threesome or the unicorn the couple … Continue reading

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The Sex Negative Public Good

The debate between pro/anti sex advocates of all vocations seem to orient their arguments about the cause/effect relationship of sexuality. More sex ed vs. less, prostitution decriminalization or legalization; pornography, good or bad for women ? A perpetual pissing contest … Continue reading

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Shaming Is A Distraction

Shaming, seems to drift in and out of culture like a fog, causing us to lose focus on the road.  Those of us who do not subscribe to state endorsed norms are confronted with this shame every day. Shame is … Continue reading

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Cool Costs Money

There was an IBM commercial that had a tag line that stated “Cool costs money”. Cool does cost money, and it can be emotionally expensive as well. How often have you  done something or wanted something because it was cool?  … Continue reading

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Non Consensual Submission

As this country slides towards a more robust and efficient form of fascism that makes the Nazis look absolutely bush league; the latest ruling from the California Supreme Court allowing police to rummage through your phone is another line item … Continue reading

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A Free Market Approach To Prostitution

There are a great many proponents for the decriminalization, or legal recognition of prostitution, escort services, and sex work in general. But typically, pro-sex arguments invoke some coercive government regulation to provide a “safety net for sex workers”, or “rights … Continue reading

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Fight The Power

If you keep up with our blog you are aware we had the opportunity to meet and get to know the magnificent, sexy, The Beautiful Kind. But there is more to her story than just getting “the kinks worked out”. … Continue reading

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Eros And Some Other Words…

I enjoy the psychedelic energy created with my lovely muse when I tie her with rope. Graydancer posted an essay considering the words we use, and the meaning behind them. I would suggest you go read that first as the … Continue reading

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Legal BDSM

New post up at the Kink Academy where I chime in briefly about BDSM and law. Its very absurd that there has to be regulations on the books restricting what two consenting adults can choose to do. If you happen … Continue reading

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