Monthly Archives: January 2011

High Heeled Sneakers

James Brown sang about them, Tommy Tucker created the cultural phenomena, and it seems they were pretty big in the 70′s but not really sure of their standing in the fashion hierarchy of today (pun intended). Not that we have … Continue reading

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Ultra Sexy

At the Xpressions event in Tulsa, Mike Drago taught me how to tie the drum harness. A damn sexy functional tie, that works for decoration, suspension, or floor play. We wanted to play a little bit, but before we got … Continue reading

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Cupid, Pull Out Your Rope

Its coming soon, the annual weekend dedicated soley to focus on your lover. Appreciate them in not just the Oprah way by sharing a special joke, a smile, or a long gaze in the eye. The ubiquitous rose and chocolates … Continue reading

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You Can Be Lazy And Kinky

Being that at times I really prefer to put in the least amount of effort doing something I find it most productive when it comes to topping. When Georgia and I were enrolled at the Kink Academy we watched Princess … Continue reading

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Cool Costs Money

There was an IBM commercial that had a tag line that stated “Cool costs money”. Cool does cost money, and it can be emotionally expensive as well. How often have you  done something or wanted something because it was cool?  … Continue reading

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Smack Time

In the evenings as the cold wind blows, and night settles around the burgh, a rapacious hunger gnaws at my bowels. Not the type of hunger that can only be quenched by dense nutrients, but one that can only be … Continue reading

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Rustlin Some Rope

We had the good fortune to attend a rope workshop with Mike Drago at a club called Xpressions. Mike and his partner Surreal was putting on a rope demo, and we had been looking for something to do over the … Continue reading

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And I like Smellin The Rope

Its the rope. I’m not sure why, and I didnt choose this particular item. Perhaps it chose me. I would have never guessed that in my lifetime I would find rope so enticing, it’s becoming the duct tape of our … Continue reading

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Non Consensual Submission

As this country slides towards a more robust and efficient form of fascism that makes the Nazis look absolutely bush league; the latest ruling from the California Supreme Court allowing police to rummage through your phone is another line item … Continue reading

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A Party In Our House Of Pants

All I learned about hosting a party was from the movie Bachelor Party, the Tom Hanks romp that celebrates the mindless pursuit of strange pussy before facing a lifetime of sex with one woman. Even though we didnt have a … Continue reading

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