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Fight The Power

Posted on November 29, 2010 by JM

If you keep up with our blog you are aware we had the opportunity to meet and get to know the magnificent, sexy, The Beautiful Kind. But there is more to her story than just getting “the kinks worked out”. … Continue reading →

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Eros And Some Other Words…

Posted on November 4, 2010 by JM

I enjoy the psychedelic energy created with my lovely muse when I tie her with rope. Graydancer posted an essay considering the words we use, and the meaning behind them. I would suggest you go read that first as the … Continue reading →

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Civilized Society

Posted on October 8, 2010 by JM

I read the phrase the other day, “governments dont civilize society, people do”, and thought how relative it might be to the BDSM community. The “community” however it is defined, is an example of this maxim as, generally speaking, it … Continue reading →

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Bi Males, Bi Females, Discuss…

Posted on September 5, 2010 by JM

We were on the back porch the other day, enjoying some fruity spirits, a cool breeze, and purple martins flying about the sky.  It was one of those serendipitous occasions that sends an explosion of butterflies through your stomach. We … Continue reading →

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Facebook 99% Culture Free

Posted on August 27, 2010 by JM

The young upstart social network Facebook is deciding to embrace mediocrity at the ascent of its popularity. Over the last few weeks Facebook has removed a feminist pro porn page( no porn was displayed or linked too), the Liberator sex … Continue reading →

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Forced Consent

Posted on August 16, 2010 by JM

In the BDSM world the slogan Safe Sane and Consensual is slapped to our collective bumper sticker. We are reminded of it in the same way our mothers reminded us of the golden rule, or to eat your veggies.I began … Continue reading →

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Sexual Articulation

Posted on August 13, 2010 by JM

The other day Georgia told me of a situation in which it was obvious that an older man, situated in a seat a short distance from her. He was half turned in his chair, staring directly at her, sitting next … Continue reading →

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Non Consensual Voyeurs

Posted on August 4, 2010 by JM

Much of our leisure time is occupied navigating the internets; the wonderful tubes of information to gratify ourselves in many different ways. Not just sexual gratification, whole “communities” of people who identify and relate to a common theme. It can … Continue reading →

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Controlling Desire

Posted on August 2, 2010 by JM

There has been a bit written lately about monogamy vs non monogamy, and whether a person can be happy, or is happy. As I was writing a post reflection on my sexual growth over the last twenty years, some of … Continue reading →

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Big Fat Hairy State

Posted on July 18, 2010 by JM

Last week Judge Richard Leon dismissed on grounds of insufficient evidence obscenity charges against John Stagliano, charges that were brought during the Bush Administration. Not really a surprise that the charges were dismissed as it was a shoddy attempt at … Continue reading →

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