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Dealing With Pain – The Kind We DONT like

Posted on March 19, 2012 by RedHotGeorgia

In a sub-culture where pain is not only an integeral part of what we do, but frequently the desired goal and anticipated result, those that suffer from chronic pain would seem to avoid the BDSM lifestyle, right? According to the … Continue reading →

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Fifty Shades of Grey – An Opinion

Posted on March 3, 2012 by RedHotGeorgia

I was watching the news in the hospital room I was trapped in for 12 hrs while recovering a heart, when a story came on about the new book craze sweeping the middle-aged, married, female demographic. After listening to the … Continue reading →

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Rope Is Our Unicorn

Posted on March 30, 2011 by JM

As a younger fella I never conceived that I would derive so much pleasure tying, binding, or constricting, my significant other in various positions as part of our recreational sex milieu. Erotic rope bondage is something that can take you … Continue reading →

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No Shortage Of Unicorns

Posted on March 2, 2011 by JM

I read it in profiles all over the Fetlife. The search for a single bi female, sought after in the same way BDSM groups seek play-spaces. Advertising this way never leads to a healthy threesome or the unicorn the couple … Continue reading →

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The Sex Negative Public Good

Posted on February 22, 2011 by JM

The debate between pro/anti sex advocates of all vocations seem to orient their arguments about the cause/effect relationship of sexuality. More sex ed vs. less, prostitution decriminalization or legalization; pornography, good or bad for women ? A perpetual pissing contest … Continue reading →

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High Heeled Sneakers

Posted on January 26, 2011 by JM

James Brown sang about them, Tommy Tucker created the cultural phenomena, and it seems they were pretty big in the 70′s but not really sure of their standing in the fashion hierarchy of today (pun intended). Not that we have … Continue reading →

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You Can Be Lazy And Kinky

Posted on January 19, 2011 by JM

Being that at times I really prefer to put in the least amount of effort doing something I find it most productive when it comes to topping. When Georgia and I were enrolled at the Kink Academy we watched Princess … Continue reading →

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Cool Costs Money

Posted on January 18, 2011 by JM

There was an IBM commercial that had a tag line that stated “Cool costs money”. Cool does cost money, and it can be emotionally expensive as well. How often have you  done something or wanted something because it was cool?  … Continue reading →

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Dear Diary – Red Lights, Red Ass

Posted on January 18, 2011 by RedHotGeorgia

We started timid, and finished with a flourish. Red lights burned everywhere, giving  the room a ruby glow.  Tables were scattered about the play area, along with a Saint Andrews cross, a gynecologic examination table, a sex swing and a … Continue reading →

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Smack Time

Posted on January 17, 2011 by JM

In the evenings as the cold wind blows, and night settles around the burgh, a rapacious hunger gnaws at my bowels. Not the type of hunger that can only be quenched by dense nutrients, but one that can only be … Continue reading →

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